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atomicmemoryvsgraymatter

Two self-hosted Mem0 alternatives, compared on the numbers selfhost.directory tracks live: score, popularity, release cadence and setup effort.

atomicmemorygraymatter
Score54/10053/100
Rank in category#35 of 125 in AI#38 of 125 in AI
GitHub stars440488
Stars, last 30 days——
Stable releases, 12 months514
Latest releasecli-v0.4.0 · 30 Sept 2026v0.20.1 · 9 Oct 2026
SetupModerateEasy
Official Docker imageYesNo
LicenseOtherMIT
Main languageTypescriptGo

Which one should you pick?

atomicmemory scores 54/100 against 53/100 for graymatter, so it is the safer default.

graymatter ships more often: 14 stable releases in the past year, against 5 for atomicmemory.

If you want the quickest setup, graymatter is easier to run; atomicmemory needs more configuration.

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